
People usually feel that their first dating seem to be panic, right? That's a natural feeling for adults of any age, especially if you're out of practice. Whether you’re 16 or 65, the best way to enjoy a first date is to keep an open mind, focus on the things you have in common, and make your primary goal to simply have a good time.
DOs:
- ALWAYS give respect and appreciate to the one you are talking to; but not too much.
- BE careful of your words.
- MAKE your feeling calm, helpful, and shared.
- DON'T talk too much and give in turn your partner to talk.
- Always ENCOURAGE your partner to feel free to talk with you and say what his/her thinking.
- ASK some questions that let you both continue the talk smoothly and longer than expected.
- THINK of what you should talk and what you should not.
- BE promptly to answer to the questions you may have.
- Always ENCOURAGE you partner to talk or to do something.
- ASK if she/he need helps from you
- BE neutral to events, persons and other things.
- DO NOT strongly tell what to do but suggestion and idea.
- Always SHOW your good feeling while talking.
- Look at his/her eyes while he/she talks.
- Etc ...
Where?
I think you can go to coffee shop, quiet restaurant, or bar that can give you romantic atmosphere/ambients for both parties.
When?
In the evening is the most possible recommended.
Attention:
Your dress is the first impression. You should be careful of your dress.
Your attitudes also help you to deal with such matter. Change it if necessary.
ARE you promptly to go out with your first time partner? If not, better don't go.
And you can avoid the usual casual chit-chat like:
"My wife is still missing."
"I met my first boyfriend on the prison bus."
Yada. Yada. Yada.